Why an alpaca farm, of all things? As my wife, Tina and I have grown over the years, we have organically developed a calling to create something bigger than a house on our property. Something that allows us to share our creativity, our love of family and community, something that brings people together with laughter and love. Let me take you back a few years…
In 2016 I was asked to be the wedding officiant for a couple who are very dear to me. I mean, you cannot say no to a request like this, so I accepted with honor. Wow, how cool is this, to share one of the most powerful life events with people this important to me was such a great feeling. I wrote the ceremony to follow their theme and practiced my part over and over. I wanted to create an atmosphere where the audience would be part of the experience, and the couple could feel the love being shared by everyone present.
The event was a success, and during the months leading up to the wedding, Tina and I built props for the ceremony and assisted with set up and organizing the event. The feelings we shared when performing the event were like a flower blossoming in both of us for higher calling. Sharing the great unifier with others, sharing love!
Tina and I spent the next 4 years working to create a wedding venue on our 40-acre property. We set up a business and renovated a dilapidated barn into a majestic icon of the Yelm, Washington countryside. We did a second wedding, then a third… And as time went by, the wedding buzz started turning into something different, a wedding hangover. Weddings represent the most beautiful, time-honored event of our lives, but with such great honor and happiness, comes the opposite… Expectations, deadlines, perfection and ultimately disappointment. Weddings had lost their beautiful luster!
Now what? I think more backstory will help paint the picture of our journey, before the wedding buzz, life took us for a ride…
2012, Tina was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer called Pseudomyxoma Peritonei (PMP) and was hospitalized for 6-weeks after undergoing an intense 8-hour surgery involving, multi-process, invasive procedures that concludes with heated chemotherapy washes through her abdomen. This exhausting experience combined with the long road to recovery sparked the desire for change from the disconnected and egocentric world we lived in to living a life of connection and gratitude for each day.
Healing from such a deep all-encompassing shock to the system takes years to overcome. Physical, emotional, and ultimately trauma, ‘being the hardest’ to fully recover from. This can shape your view on life and “what is really important”. Whether the experience was first person or as a powerless bystander watching the life of the person you love literally hanging by a thread, the trauma you feel is life altering.
We all have suffered from trauma in one form or another. The difference is ‘how’ we process our experience that allows our recovery. For my beautiful wife the gift of restored life was a calling to live and give to others. This life event was how the seed to give was planted in both of us. Tina has spent the past 12 years growing her yoga practice and in 2023 received her certification to teach, while I have begun an intense search for deeper understanding of regulating mental and emotional health and wellness.
Fast forward to our new adventure. We sold the Yelm home in 2022 and since we wanted a slower, country lifestyle we purchased a farm in the hills outside of Chehalis, WA to be our retirement destination. We never envisioned the path we would find ourselves on, but through community engagement we discovered alpacas and our alpaca mentor.
If you are following along, waiting for the answer to the very first question… here it is! Yoga… healing… alpacas? [Hmmmm] We had heard of goat yoga but that was not the style of calm and healing we were looking for but when we visited an alpaca farm and were surrounded by a 75-head herd who were softly humming, the feeling we had was indescribable. These animals are special.
Alpacas are enchanting, gentle, creatures with calm and sometimes quirky personalities, they evoke calmness, are naturally curious, and when you look at their faces, combined with the topknot ‘hair styles’ they actually remind you of cartoon versions of people you know!! Alpacas naturally make you smile, which adds to the vibe. They are absolutely perfect therapy animals and fit our vision of what we wanted to give!
The seeds that were planted earlier in our lives have brought us to share healing, to create community, to develop a sanctuary that embodies all these ideas, in one. Welcome to Sweetgrass and Sage Alpaca and Wellness Farm.